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Be warned - I'm hot right now.

It's unbelievable to me that I am even having to think about this bill that didn't get passed in the senate.

Let me take you back to a place for a moment. I take you there a lot mainly because - well it's the only other place I've lived. New Mexico. It's not a state you think of racing and breeding horses. Most people in this country aren't educated enough to realize it's a state - and that's the fault of either the school system or poor gene pool. I haven't decided. Anyway - New Mexico's horse racing (both Quarter Horse and Thoroughbred) and breeding industry was nearing extinction when I left to follow my dreams in Kentucky.

It's a large state (5th largest btw) and not heavily populated. There were 6 tracks at one point and time. Not all racing at the same time. Here is your list:

1) San Juan Downs (NW corner - between Farmington and Bloomfield, NM) - they could handle traffic from corners of Arizona, Colorado, Utah and NM. Raced May 2nd to Labor Day. Average purse per race in 1992: $1,246  

2) La Mesa Park (NE corner in Raton, NM - they could handle Oklahoma, Colorado, Texas and NM. June 20th to July 26th (once upon a time they raced all Summer). Average purse per race in 1992: $1,081 

3) The Downs at Santa Fe (about middle of the northern half of the state, in Santa Fe, NM - handling large tourist traffic and Albuquerque traffic). Raced April 29th to Labor Day roughly. Average purse per race in 1992: $3,857.  

4) The Downs at Albuquerque (about 55 miles south of Santa Fe in Albuquerque, NM - handles their own traffic, and that of many who travel through NM to get somewhere else). Raced from January 10th - June 15th. Then again from September 11th to October 12th. (NM State Fair Meet). Average purse per race in 1992: $4,484.

5) Ruidoso Downs (about middle of the southern half of the state in Ruidoso, NM - handling a large amount of Texas traffic and Southern NM traffic). Raced May 7th to Labor Day. Average purse per race in 1992: $3,471.  

6) Sunland Park (on the NM/TX/Mexico border - way south yo, handling obvious traffic including that from El Paso, TX). Raced January 1st - May 3rd and October 23rd to December 31st). Average purse per race in 1992: $2,944.

So there you have it - 6 tracks, 4 competing against each other during the Summer. The purses were beyond crap. Take note - in case you don't know - most races the winner gets 60% of the purse. The trainer/jockey each get 10% (that may have changed - but I'm not looking it up). Most pay to 5th or 6th place. So you as the Owner - ended up with very little - considering that most horses run (back then) once or maybe twice in a month - and not every month. If you didn't win every time - you're losing money (which most people did). So let us fast forward a bit.

I left New Mexico in the Summer of 1993. At that time San Juan Downs closed (remained closed for 6 years). La Mesa Park closed the year before and has yet to reopen but ground breaking (interestingly enough) begins tomorrow June 24th. Santa Fe Downs closed in 1997 - and has not reopened and likely will not btw. This left 3 tracks in operation mostly due to the strong Quarter Horse support for large stakes at each track, IMHO.

Something had to be done - there was a slight change in race date distribution and they added VLT's or slots. Had that addition to these entertainment venues not come to pass - I do not believe I would know a soul who owned/race/trained a horse in NM any longer. Let's jump ahead shall we to 2007 - slots in affect since 1999 and purses have risen significantly.

1) SunRay Park (Formerly San Juan Downs) - Raced May 3rd - July 15th. Average purse per race in 2007: $14,184. Up from $1,246.  

2) The Downs at Albuquerque. Raced from August 10th - October 7th. With the NM State Fair Meet somewhere in the middle. Average purse per race in 2007: $16,018. Up from $4,484.

3) Ruidoso Downs. Raced Memorial Day to Labor Day. Average purse per race in 2007: $18,378. Up from $3,471.

4) Sunland Park. Raced December of 2006 - April 29th, 2007. Average purse per race in 2007: $26,111. Up from $2,944.

5) Zia Park (New Track opened in 2005 - on the NM/TX border near the South East corner of the state, in Hobbs, NM). Raced September 22 to December 11. Average purse per race in 2007: $21,923 

It's a no brainer that the VLT's fully saved racing and breeding in NM - eventually leading to us having horses race there and end up winning the Kentucky Derby-G1, Alabama S.-G1, Acorn S.-G1, La Brea S.-G1, must I go on?

So for years everyone said it won't matter because this is Kentucky. Well people it matters. People support horse racing but not "gambling" because it's addictive. Are you f*^%in kidding me? Gambling supports horse racing. We are not Dubai - we need people to wager in hopes of making a big splash at the window in order to support the horses, the people and the exterior that benefits from horse racing.

I cannot believe people are this stupid that they have to have it spelled out for them. But I'll get the block letters now - and you can pass this on to every retard that makes a buck from horse racing but thinks they are better than it - and thinks they'll survive without it.

What do you do for a living? I do pedigree research on Thoroughbreds for numerous consignors that are mostly based in Lexington. All of my income is derived from the world of horse racing. I won't share with you the amount - 'cause it's none of your business. But - if I don't have my business - that means I will leave Kentucky most likely probably on a killing spree but that's way off topic. Say I'm gone because I can no longer support my lifestyle and there are no horses for me to research. This means - I do not spend money at Incredipet, Kroger, Wendy's McDonald's, Puccini's, Mia's, Ohana Massage, Fayette Mall, Loch Lea Antiques, King's Garden Center, Walgreen's, Staples, FedEx Office (that's Kinko's yo), Farmer's Market, Portofino's, Giuseppe's, BloodStock Research, Daily Racing Form, NuVOX, Dish Network (I canceled DirectTV btw), KU, Columbia Gas, Starbucks, Kentucky American Water, Slone's Signature Market, Lansdowne Vet, BP - all in Lexington or surrounding areas. Do you know how much money I blow? A lot - I like to spend when it's there. That leaves only Verizon still getting my money because I must have a cell phone and they aren't based here. But I'll not be buying a new phone at a Lexington store or accessories.

Do you see how this works? I am one person. If you're a retailer, restaurant owner, business owner of some sort in Lexington your cash flow - somehow begins with a horse that someone else owns. There are plenty of racetracks and plenty of states that have plenty of land that anyone (outside of Don and Mira Ball) can change into a horse farm in this country. - I make the Ball crack because they both own a farm and develop land on former farms - the biggest hypocrites in the business. Someone long ago said this was the best place to raise a horse - people believed it, a community began - there you have it. A City thrived.

But it doesn't take a genius to realize that if the purses continue to drop at Ellis, Turfway and Churchill - even Kentucky Downs - then eventually those tracks close. Meaning people will have to ship further to race their horses. Why ship so far - why not just move? I would.

Keeneland is a boutique track with a public auction business. They will most likely be fine - without slots. But will they be fine as the only track in the state? No - not at all. Because - who comes to Kentucky if the farm owners that race cannot sustain because they have to spend more money to ship to tracks that have good purses? It's a vicious cycle.

Plain and simple: we are an entertainment industry that only exists if people gamble on us. You cannot pay the jockey, groom, trainer, exercise rider, hot walker, vet, blacksmith, feed supplier, etc. without that gamble. Right there are 8 different job titles that directly work with horse racing (just racing not breeding or sales). If they aren't here in KY making a living - they WILL be elsewhere. Believe me - which means all their excess money will not trickle down to YOU - the person struggling to keep their business afloat.

If you live in an area with a racetrack in the state of Kentucky - your ass makes money when the races are live (and in Lexington - all year round). Not just business owners - but employees as well. If you're a server at any one of the restaurants in Lexington alone, Starbucks staff, Sonic Carhop - imagine life without a tip during Keeneland live racing or sales? That means - you get to find a job delivering the crap ass Herald-Leader one day - that made sure no one cared about your job because they don't support horse racing anyway. Good luck with that.

I do not give a shit what religious belief you have, what political party you're associated with, what moral high ground you think you are on, what part of Kentucky you reside in - without horse racing - what is Kentucky? It's Tennessee without Country music. It's New York City without Broadway. It's Disneyworld without happiness. And who the fuck would want any part of that?

Wake up.

Also - for show your support and how important your job and your income are to you and your family. "We are NOT done fighting!" Rally @ Keeneland Sales Pavillion. 6/24 at 6:30 p.m.
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The Belmont Stakes

I had decided to take some time away from the blog - mostly because I'm so busy. That's ok though.

You must remember from last year that during my business' peak season I must focus more there than here. But do note that I love here a lot!

The weeks after the Preakness leading into the Belmont always have me longing for more. I love the 3 week break for the horses but it's torture waiting it out. This time was harder - I thought for sure Rachel Alexandra would run because I don't think that her connections truly care that much about her well being. Maybe that's fight talk but it's just my gut feelings. I thought what a build up it would be for racing though to have her in - but truly wanted to see her get beat by Mine That Bird badly. Shut up - I'm a bitch.

So here we are - it's Belmont eve (actually as I'm on this laptop it's past eve and into morning) and all the dog shows and work I've been doing have me beat. I won't get to watch the under card because I'm in Somerset clearing out my father-in-laws garage (may he rest in peace). My friend Mary - check out her blog - is going to text me the results throughout the day. Made my bets - at the Keeneland Drive Thru betting window (I still love saying that) and will make it to Aunt Mary's in time for the ABC coverage.

I'll be cheering for Mine That Bird - as you should have guessed - to win it all. I feel something more impressive than the Derby on the horizon for him. I believe Chocolate Candy will follow him a long and grab 2nd - with Charitable Man and Mr. Hot Stuff.

Whatever the case - I believe we are in for something special.

The other races? Glad you asked.

The Woodford Reserve Manhattan S.-G1
I like Wesley, Court Vision (entered with Optimer [ARG]), Cowboy Cal. The toughest race for me to handicap because I wanted like 7 horses here - but I have rules.

The Acorn S.-G1
Originally where Rachel was headed before the purchase Preakness press. I can't imagine anything beating West Point's Justwhistledixie. But I'll include Gabby's Golden Gal (gave Rachel all she wanted - or whatever in the Oaks) and Four Gifts.

The Woody Stephens S.-G2
Hull - all about it. Top notch. Combining with Everyday Heroes (entered with Regal Ransom - not a fan) This Ones for Phil and Triumphant Flight. No really - that's what I said.

The Just a Game S.-G1
Forever Together is the queen of the turf right now - and I wonder when she'll throw in a clunker? I have her combined with Raw Silk (likey), I Lost My Choo, and Diamondrella (G

The True North H.-G2
Once a favorite race of mine. I really like Desert Key with Silver Edition and Fabulous Strike.

and that - my children concludes our broadcast day.

Go Mine That Bird!

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Wonder Woman and Superman

It's been a few days and finally I'm past the struggle I was having with the result of the Preakness. Before you get into attack mode - listen to me. Or just read cause I'm not talking out loud.

I spent most of Preakness day driving back from Marietta, OH (cat pee smell capital of the world I'm guessing) after picking up 2 of our dogs from a dog show. I had handicapped on Friday (day before) and made my bets before leaving Lexington. I love advanced wagering. I anxiously awaited texts from my friend Beth with results and occasionally getting to check info on my laptop while we drove through the mountains that border Ohio and West Virginia.

It was a little more than torture not being able to watch live but I knew I'd be home in time to catch some live racing.

I got to Beth's in time to catch several races live. Flipping back and forth from HRTV, TVG and NBC we really enjoyed our day. Cheering on Parading earlier on the card was especially fun. I didn't see the NBC coverage until after the race. I love DVR - we could watch tons of stuff and then come back to that coverage after most of the east coast racing had ended. I
Not that it would matter to 98% of the people reading this but the piece on Mine That Bird was almost too hard for me to watch. Dr. Blach reminds me of my Dad. His recollection of the Derby moment was priceless. When he got choked up talking about congratulating his family I lived it through him. I'm sure many people were ready for a Walter Matthau moment from Casey's Shadow "I almost peed my pants," if only because of the ignorance of people.

I tend to play that moment as if it were me often in my head. What would I do? (please note that I'm am 50% certifiable because I also do the same with the Oscar's, Grammy's and Eclipse Awards - sometimes I'm still 14-years-old - how I stay young - that and botox). You're probably thinking I'm going to tell you my "thank you speech" now but I can't. It changes regularly in my head and it's personal. When it happens be sure to know that it will be genuine, unrehearsed and original. I can also say that you'll not understand a word through the sobbing. You can always visit me in the home later.

We finally go to the race. Watching the post parade I thought Rachel Alexandra looked bad compared to every time before. Maybe it's those Asmussen braids. To me they always make a horse look somewhat ratty. But truly she looked thinner than when I saw her at Churchill. Beth and I both remarked how Mine That Bird looked to be putting on weight. A great sign.

They broke from the gate and I don't have to tell you the race - you should have watched. My eyes would go from Rachel Alexandra at the front to Mine That Bird in the back. When they turned for home I cringed as Flying Private's big ass was in my way. I mean his way. Then a wall of horses with a mess going on in front of him. I do believe that was enough to cost him the win - but that is how it goes. As they reached the wire I honestly felt him getting there and winning by a nose. Didn't happen.

I cheered and cheered his name - to the point of entertaining Beth's neighbor in her yard next door. A filly just won the Preakness after 85 years of trying - and I was depressed. Normally I would be thrilled. It's historic - she's gorgeous, she had to run hard the entire 1 3/16 miles to do it. I wasn't happy at all.

It took me all night and part of Sunday morning to come to terms with her win/his loss. I was more broken hearted that he tried so hard and wasn't able to get to her than I was for the special moment of her win. I didn't want her to succeed - I wanted him to be the Triple Crown winner. The first horse I'd allow to wear that title since Affirmed. Nothing has been good enough to me. I even thought to myself that it was perfect that he was a 2yo champion - as were our 3 Triple Crown winners from the 70's. Sure it was in Canada - but unlike most people in TB racing in the US - I respect Canadian racing.

If you know me you know I like a girl against the boys. You know I like when the girl is as tough as the boys. But this time I didn't want it because I liked the gelding - which I rarely cheer for he who is without well you know, everything. I didn't mind her in the race, I even kept her in all my wagering. I just didn't want her to win.

You would think he was my horse - but Chip and Dr. Blach (not sure about Mark Allen) were happier than me. I came to terms on Sunday a.m. and I let it all go. I'm now thrilled to have been able to watch this special moment in our history. It also once again underlines why those 11 Triple Crown winners are so sacred. This is why it's important NOT to even think about changing how the races are laid out. Don't mess with it to make it easy. Believe me - if you change a distance, time between, etc. I'll be the first person to let you know that the 12th and following Triple Crown winners needs an asterisk that says
*not in the same league with the real Triple Crown winners, the journey was made easier so that the Triple Crown could suck.

I wouldn't be surprised to see a Rachel Alexandra/Mine That Bird match up in the Belmont because I do NOT believe that her new connections really look out for her best interests. I believe it is all very self serving. They aren't the first - and won't be the last to feed the media and fans what they want and then do the opposite. It's none of our business, to be honest because whether you want to believe it or not. We can all voice our opinions but until it is our/your own horse it's really none of our business.

You could tell me what I should do with my dogs but I'm not going to listen - they are my dogs. You could come in and suggest what I should do with my business - but it's my business and not yours. Sure we are all fans - and fans always feel that they own a part of their favorite. Overall - everything we become fans of is a business for someone else. I have begun to take all that to heart. I mean - if Janet Jackson canceled her concert on my birthday last year and hasn't been seen or heard from since - because she's very possibly pregnant - I may not be as big a fan. If she becomes a mom it ruins it for me. But that's her life not mine.

Do you see what I am saying here? We all want a say in what happens with our favorite racehorse - but it's just a say and an opinion. It's their business - we don't pay the bills. YES ('cause I knew you'd say something) our gambling dollars add to the life of the racetrack and all involved - but do you gamble because you want to pay the training bills? No you gamble to make some money. So here's my thought. I'm going to keep my mouth shut about people I don't respect or believe in from now on. It just promotes negativity.

From here on - I will honor the racehorse - even if I lose at the window.

I must also say that with all that has come about in the Triple Crown - I find it highly interesting that no stallion prospects have come about from these races. Outside of maybe Musket Man because he is truly a consistent horse. I mean the rest currently I wouldn't send a mare (had I a mare) to if this is where they stopped. We have a gelding and a filly at the top of the Triple Crown races right now. The rest didn't show up or were so badly beaten - that I don't consider them as sires for the future.

In closing - because I'm kind of rambling and this could go on all day - (another reason for that home where I can be visited later in life - or sooner) - I'm pleased that racing is in my heart again - and I hope you'll join me in loving it like we did when we were kids.

Come on Mine That Bird!

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Two of the Longest Weeks Ever

I'm sitting here watching TVG - because I can and I enjoy The Morning Line with Mr. B and Greg  Wolfe (Wolf? I should check that but I'm my own editor - because it's a blog btw not an article - but I do not feel like it - so I shant). I have been in agony wondering how I'm going to watch the Preakness and the under card at Pimlico since I don't have HRTV (Thanks DirecTV - I'll be leaving you soon for Dish). So low and behold (or is that lo and behold?) I messed up - I'm guessing - on my dogs entries to the shows in Marietta, OH. I did them - but they didn't get them - how's that? It sucks because I'd rather be at the dog show then not.

Whatever - you don't need to care about that. It's a big 'f' up on my part (I'd so like to blog with my real foul mouth but I don't) and I'm not thrilled.

It did leave the door open for me to be able to watch HRTV at my friend Beth's on Saturday. I even considered going to Keeneland for their little shindig and drink all day - then I remembered - I don't say shindig and I can't drink all day. Complete lightweight - and 2 of my many rules: 1) I don't fall down in public and 2) I don't throw up in public. Which can mean - I don't drink in public - and by that I don't mean I drink alone. Let's just move on ok?

The past 2 weeks have been a whirlwind for me - I can't imagine actually being associated with Mine That Bird (or any horse - I miss owning horses - one day I'll do it all again). I did a podcast interview with Derek Simon (Simon Says Racing) for Youbet.com because of Mine That Bird. Derek rocks - you can here the conversation - and more here: http://www.youbet.com/youbetupdate/rss/simonsays_itunes.xml

I have really enjoyed having a unrealistic vicarious connection to the Kentucky Derby winner. I think I got the last Sports Illustrated in Lexington when I was on my search for mementos to send to my sisters in San Juan County, New Mexico. In turn my sister sent me a Farmington Daily Times - the paper from home that all my life I don't remember seeing horse racing on the cover. The headline? Kind of neat - though - Major Upset: Bloomfield's Mine That Bird wins Kentucky Derby. Sure he's not from Bloomfield - but they feel like he is - and that's the important aspect.

To me the best part of this story - is that people that aren't racing fans in NM - watched the telecast because of the connection - and then he won.

Saturday is the Preakness Stakes. The 2nd leg of the Triple Crown for Thoroughbred Racing. It's usually not my favorite leg - however last year was my first time to go to Pimlico (thanks Phil!) and I had the best time ever!

So this year - I'm wishing I was there but with the dogs, preparing the house for sale, preparing another house for sale and buying the new house, not to mention working on the Fasig-Tipton July Sale already! I thought it might be wise to stay home (actually - I would leave tomorrow if I could).

My thoughts below on the Preakness that I'm not at - in order of preference.

1st. Mine That Bird - you call it a fluke, you think I'm picking him because of the personal connection. I say - jimmy crack corn bitch - I cashed a ticket on him - and so did plenty of others (shout out to Jason - nice job - I'm glad I helped - I think, that's a lot of pressure). If you watched the race - I think you'll notice that he didn't only win the Derby but he left the others behind like old women getting off the church bus. I mean - that's not fluke movement - it's fluid. Rain or no rain - he's legit and I hope to see him in the winner's circle.

2nd. Musket Man - he impressed me in the Derby - I threw him out. Big mistake. Big fan of Yonaguska - and btw Cherokee Run (sire of Yonaguska) hit the board in the Preakness.

3rd. Take the Points - Pletcher should have put him in the Derby and skipped Dunkirk who lacked experience.

4th. Pioneerof the Nile - he's true quality - but I don't know that he's Triple Crown race winner quality. It's tight for me with my top 5. Probably 5 horse exacta box.

5th. Papa Clem - I think he's better than people gave credit (probably including me) before the Derby.

6th. General Quarters - totally throwing out the Derby for him - I wouldn't be surprised to see him hit the board. He usually throws a clunker in after a win. Not totally sold on him.

7th. Friesan Fire - I don't know what to think of the Derby for him but he didn't just lose - he lost by 42 1/2 lengths.

8th. Rachel Alexandra - anytime she has come back within 2 weeks between races she has lost. Sure she was 2nd those times - and she was a 2yo but I'm just saying. She did win the Oaks extremely easy - but looking back at the field she beat 1 listed SW, and 2 Graded stakes placed fillies. The rest had no black-type. Yes it was impressive and I'm not dismissing that effort. I'm just saying this is a huge task to be asked of this girl - I don't believe she'll do well. I could be very wrong but I don't think 2 weeks later running against 12 boys - 7 of which are Graded Stakes winners going 1 3/16 miles is looking out for her best option.

9th. Big Drama - why is everyone so excited about him for this race? I don't believe he's the right one to get so high on. You cannot convince me.

10th. Terrain - he does not like to win.

11th. Tone it Down - has my least favorite jockey on earth riding (and that's saying something Kent D.) I don't usually mind the local hope here - but this one is not the hope I was looking towards.

12th. Flying Private - Why? I mean why?

13th. Luv Gov - it took him 10 races to finally break his maiden - in the slop. NO.

Over all I believe the b.s. that occurred before the Preakness and after the Derby - brings more publicity to our sport. It wasn't all good publicity but how long were we not talked about? Think about it - when was the last time you heard Jessica Simpson's name? You can say you didn't care before - but her name was hot for a while, now she's nothing and doesn't matter. Because no one talks about her. We had that for too long. TOO LONG I say.

I'm not impressed with the selling/buying of Rachel Alexandra. It's business and to be honest - it's no ones business but the parties involved. However don't tell me about your gift from God - and then sell it to the man with all the money (I was going to say Devil and decided against - of course, now I've said it). God does not appreciate using his name in all it's greatness and then basically for a price casting him aside. Sure the buyers can sit at home hoping nothing goes wrong. I hope nothing goes wrong. It's highly doubtful that it will. But I wonder what she'll be like on Sunday after this moment.

One last thing - I want to hear nothing from anyone about how great Jess Jackson was for the fans because he kept Curlin on the track for everyone. Know full out that - he had no other option. He could have retired him - yes - but not for stud duty until all the crap with the other owners (who were in prison) was cleared up - or they were bought out or whatever. His option was turn out or race. More money in racing. Don't give me the I care about the fans speech. It's similar to his Fillies shouldn't run against colts speech on TVG - though the day before someone from his camp had checked on Preakness possibilities.

My last complaint - before you believe that the connections with Mine That Bird are new to racing like most publications reported - do note that Dr. Blach has been in the game forever. He has had top quality racing Quarter Horses - but most of the TB story tellers didn't want to report on such a breed. I guess because they were still in awe or dumbfounded or mad they didn't cash a ticket. All of our breeds - that race especially - need to back each other up and acknowledge. It's not like one will last longer than another you know.

I look forward to an exciting race and more than likely an exciting finish.

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Mine - All Mine or 21 Years In the Making

How freaked out am I? Pretty damn. Some of this may be rehashing but it’s kind of what I’m going through so you’ll just have to deal with it.

I spent Derby Day nearly sick to my stomach with excitement. I realized throughout the day that I hadn’t been this excited since 1988. That year (if I haven’t already told you and don’t mind if I repeat myself) I had picked Winning Colors to win the Kentucky Derby– in about February. I was going to school at the Kentucky Horse Park in a program they once called Kentucky Equine Institute. Pretty much everyone made fun of me for picking that filly. (Except my friend Kim – thanks!) My basis for picking her? She was impressive and she was by *Caro (Ire) – loved him. I also was a D. Wayne Lukas fan and a Eugene Klein fan. I loved watching Mr. Klein – who probably had the money to do whatever he wanted – get so excited about winning any races. Every time I saw him on TV he was overjoyed with a win – even if it could have become old hat at that level. Nowadays – you hardly see that with the big money men anymore. It’s almost expected and then I even get the impression of unappreciated (comparatively) and entitled or deserved.

I finished the KEI program and was getting ready to head back to my hometown of Bloomfield, NM. That’s a long drive for a 100 lb. 18-year-old boy first time away from home. My Dad flew out to visit that weekend and make the drive back. He wanted to leave Saturday morning, uh – that’s Derby Day. I was in shock. I said – but Winning Colors? Hello – and you love Forty Niner. Thought you would want to watch? He gave in – pretty easy.

We drove around and bought a Daily Racing Form – and sat on the wee little bed/couch in my studio apartment, to watch on my 19” TV (no cable – just antenna – I know right?)
Back then – you saw maybe the turf stakes before the Derby on TV and maybe a replay of the Oaks from the day before. The build up for me was excruciating. Not in a bad way – but just like a little kid waiting for Santa to show up. Remember that feeling?

They finally broke from the gate – and you know the outcome – but what you don’t know is that my Dad and I sat in that little room cheering and screaming for our horses. His favorite stallion ever was Mr. Prospector – always wishing for a son of his to stand in NM. He was pretty much a quiet man – didn’t show a lot of excitement. Usually just a little bit of “come on – insert name”  and that’s about it. I only saw him really jump up and yell 4 times that I can remember. Forty Niner in the Derby (2nd), Tank’s Prospect in the Preakness (1st) and my filly – Whathaveyoudoneforme (both of her wins in NM). The latter 2 times may have been the most he ever cheered. Then with each win – a grab of my shoulder and a kind of “we did it” move with his arm.

As Winning Colors stayed in the lead and Forty Niner made his move – our voices got louder and the slapping of our own hands and the pounding on the sort of sitting apparatus became stronger. Never have I felt so much excitement for a horse I had never met. Winning Colors won with Forty Niner in 2nd. I was vindicated and beyond excited. I wondered if I ever would feel that again – outside of maybe my own horse. Obviously my own horse would be a MUCH bigger moment in my life.

The 2 wins by my filly at San Juan Downs – were better. She was born in 1988 – a Quarter Horse that I nicknamed Nasty. Trained by Pat Swan and ridden by Tomey Jean Swan. Two finer people I’ve never met. Two finer horsemen I’ve never met. Nasty won once at 2 and once at 3 for me. Most likely 2 of the best days of my life. I’m not lessening other events – I’m building up the wins by a filly I bred, raced, and loved. Every time she ran I would nearly puke. My Dad said – “you’ll never be able to handle owning a Thoroughbred then – because you hold your breath and get sick before.” My Mom said – “why do it if you don’t get that excited every time?” I love that quote.

Man I miss my Dad today.

Let’s fast forward to Derby Day 2009. I wrote all the above that I’ve mentioned before because I wanted you to feel what I’m feeling. As you know I haven’t been “feeling it” for my favorite world for a while. So not being able to sleep Friday night and getting up 2 hours earlier than planned started the day of nerves for me. The week had been so great, buying a new house on Thursday evening after spending the morning at Churchill. Seeing the Derby and Oaks horses gallop, meeting up with old and new friends and then meeting Chip Woolley.

Oaks Day – my handicapping was on but I only cashed for about $75. I always do a 3 horse exacta box and take those 3 horses and box in a trifecta. Then my favorite of the 3 I bet across the board. I had lots of Friday winners – my across the board horses however were off more than on the board. Torture. All that was kind of forgotten when Rachel Alexandra raced by herself in the Oaks. I haven’t been that impressed and overwhelmed by a victory since Landaluce. That’s kind of a long time ago.

All day long I was sick to my stomach – not in an actual I need a doctor or Pepto way but in a my nerves are shot and I’m just on the couch at home way. I handicapped 10 races on the card. By Derby time – I had 8 across the board bets to cash from the previous races. I hadn’t hit a single exotic. I had Chocolate Candy and Mine That Bird across ($5 each btw) for the Derby.

I watched the stupid questions asked by Kenny Rice to Chip Woolley. Are people from Kentucky that haven’t ever lived outside of here – that ignorant? I watched Kenny almost trip Chip on the walk over. I listened to the comments all day long about Mine That Bird. Not a one – said anything about the fact that he was a champion last year. Probably because they didn’t even know. Because they didn’t consider him – so they didn’t research him – or their research teams are just way lacking in follow through (probably that one).

I tuned to ESPN once and they showed Eight Belles body on the track from last year – pissed me off. Not smart enough to just discuss without the images? I know they prefer to shock because they can’t really tell a story without. Drama is much like sex – it sells – but not for me – well not drama. I went back to the coverage from WLEX18 in Lexington – they did the best coverage overall – including when it switched to the larger NBC. WLEX was educated and intelligent about the Derby field. It was a pleasure to watch.

They were off! I was no longer on the couch. I was standing up and saw that Mine That Bird was so far behind the last horse. My heart sunk and I was thinking – shit – I don’t want that to happen. People will knock NM and all involved. The race call was horrid because Tom Durkin – though often great – tries to build and put on a show – but forgets that there is a field of horses – not just a handful of mentionables. I lost Chocolate Candy in the mud. I didn’t ever hear Mine That Bird again – and wondered if he was gonna close.

I saw him shoot through the hole on the rail – and didn’t right off know it was him. Mud. Then I saw the pink on the 8 saddle cloth. I screamed to Desmond “oh my God it’s Mine That Bird.” I don’t think I quit screaming his name and jumping and slapping my hands. Tears were rolling down my face – finally Tom Durkin noticed there was a horse 4 lengths ahead of Pioneerof the Nile (who I threw out – funny). That little horse was rolling. I couldn’t think – couldn’t realize – couldn’t stop crying.

He won. Not only did he win but he kicked their asses. No it wasn’t Rachel Alexandra’s 20 ¼ lengths but it was bigger than Barbaro’s impressive Derby victory. I called Beth – who met Chip with me on Thursday. A lot of Oh My Goshes later – I had to call my sister Crystal. My texts were blowing up, my Facebook status comments were piling up, even had some tweets on Twitter. My sisters were at National Scrap Booking Day (I know but that’s their thing). Crystal answered and I couldn’t talk because I was crying. I said “Crystal? He won!!” with my shaky voice as my little sister, Vickie, text me asking if Chip’s horse had won. He had.

Crystal’s husband Charlie had just called her telling her he won – she wasn’t sure he was telling the truth because he likes to pull her leg a little. But she said he was so excited that she thought maybe he wasn’t joking. My sister’s get it even though they aren’t in the horse world at all - they know how much something like this means to someone like me – but it’s kind of incomprehensible to people outside the business, I believe.

My friend Jeni Ellis, who Chip trained one of her fillies to a 10 length victory a couple of years ago sent me a message that the crowd at SunRay Park (formerly San Juan Downs - near Bloomfield, NM) was on its feet cheering.  

It amazes me how the media can’t fathom that someone can win the Derby without being from Kentucky, or by racing in NM. They couldn’t recognize that the horse is a Champion, that there’s more to it than buying an expensive yearling or 30. They weren’t smart enough to realize that hmmm, if the horse ran in Canada for different owners that paid the original $9,500 price at Fasig-Tipton October, that he might (being a Graded Stakes winner and Champion in Canada) have cost a little bit more than that when the new owners bought him (for $400,000). He hasn’t been a $9,500 horse since he broke his maiden for $62.5k.

Are they really that untalented at their own jobs – that they can’t find more than just motorcycle accident and long haul from NM in a truck and trailer? Does anyone realize that most horses travel in trailers of some sort? Yeah – I’m sure Pioneerof the Nile came via plane – as many probably did – but seriously it’s a stupid question. Stupid. And it’s been asked.

The gentleman that owns Buena Suerte in Roswell, NM (co-owner of Mine That Bird) has been in the horse business longer than most people I know in the Thoroughbred business. I think it’s funny that people act like they are new to the game. I think it’s funny for Baffert to comment that he just got beat by a Quarter Horse trainer – when he was first and foremost a Quarter Horse trainer (as was Lukas).

I honestly believe that the racings gods slapped us down last year because we needed some reality checks. It will take some time to clean up the damage done by the greedy. It will take longer to improve the mess created by the non-horseman. But I do believe that things had to get ugly on a national scale – so that maybe someone would get their shit together. Maybe now with a little gelding that knocked the block off the big guys and a filly that took us back to a decade when horses were shockingly brilliant – we will begin to regain popularity and respect. It will not happen because someone bought a $5 million horse – that is important to keep people in business – but it’s not going to do anything for anyone who doesn’t have a $5 million horse to sale. It also doesn’t do anything for the image of our sport/industry – because the outsiders and the non-understanders see us as just greedy people who use animals to gain wealth.

Most of us know differently – but all of us need to recognize and be wiser about our choices.

I love horse racing again – it took 24 hours to really make me feel something again. I haven’t had emotion like this about the Derby in 21 years. I haven’t dreamed it possible for me to ever have a Derby horse in about as long. Thanks to Mine That Bird, Chip Woolley, Calvin Borel, Double Eagle Ranch and Buena Suerte Equine - I believe in it all again.

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2009 Kentucky Derby preview

Hmmm - my Oaks Day is turning out with several winners - but not a lot of ticket cashing. So I'm on - I'm just not exact - yet. Maybe the racing gods are waiting for Saturday for me. I probably won't put my picks for tomorrow's card up - jinxed me.

I used to send out an email with all my picks and comments and such and it was a little bitter and crude and often biting. I'll probably remain that way today for this entry. Well biting anyway. I just try not to fall into the same personality as most blogs out there - hateful, cranky, bitchy. Not sure how this will turn out!

It will probably have some strong opinions.

Below are the entries for the Kentucky Derby - in post position order. Along with my thoughts on the horse and or connections and their chances. At the end of each horses comments will be my thoughts on where he will finish.

1. West Side Bernie: Everyone is picking him as their Longshot horse. Really? He's by Bernstein out of a Gilded Time mare. He's really inconsistent to me. I just don't see what people are excited about. I don't see this pedigree getting there. I don't see this horse getting there either. I could be wrong - but I don't think so. 10th

2. Musket Man: What an awesome run these people have had with this colt. 5 wins in 6 starts. He's quality but he's not Derby quality. The owner also jinxed him by saying "when we win the 1 1/4 miles tomorrow" while being interviewed on TVG. That ruined it. 11th

3. Mr. Hot Stuff: He's gorgeous - believe me. I think he'll close well and probably end up 4th or so. I like him and including him in my exotics, but don't think he's quite ready to win it. 4th.

4. Advice: I don't know why he's running. I know he won the Lexington S.-G2 but I don't understand why they would put him in the Derby. He won't want to do this length of race. 16th

5. Hold Me Back: He has a nice record - on the board in 4 of 5 starts but the one start that he was off the board was when he ran on dirt. I think he's top quality on All-weather or Turf - I think he can probably go 1 1/4 miles easy - but he won't want to tomorrow on whatever that track will be. Arlington's Secretariat S.-G1 this Summer would be best. 14th

6. Friesan Fire: I don't care if it's wet or dry he'll run big I think. He improves so much each race. I think he's the actual one to beat. Everyone was all about him until they didn't run him after the Louisiana Derby. I think he's classy enough to do it off the layoff in March. 2nd

7. Papa Clem: He keeps improving - especially if you believe in speed figures, especially if you prefer Beyer's. However I think he's a touch below the G1 quality. He gets beat by the G1 horses. 13th

8. Mine That Bird: Now you know I have a special connection to this guy and that's important to me. I also wouldn't bet him if he had NO chance. I've heard from several "experts" that think he shouldn't be here. There are always plenty of those. Ignore those NM races because he got bad rides! BAD. He has Calvin Borel who knows how to ride a closer/stalker at Churchill Downs. A son of Birdstone out of a Smart Strike mare? Love it - will run all day - will run on anything and is my tasty longshot - for so many reasons. By the way - he's the only champion in this field. 3rd

9. Join in the Dance: he's there to set the pace - that's it and thankfully so because there is no pace and I like closers this year. 20th

10: Regal Ransom: More than likely another pace factor - however he's a cut above JitD. If there is a downpour - don't be shocked for Godolphin to finally get a win with him. 8th

11. Chocolate Candy: Yummy yummy. The winner. His family includes Affirmed (my favorite) and not just somewhere but Affirmed is a half-brother to his 2nd dam. He's stunning. He's gonna love the dirt! He's gonna love the slop. I'm gonna love him. 1st

12. General Quarters: Awesome story. The trainer/owner is the coolest guy yet if you ask me in the long list of annual Derby/older guy with one horse type stories. I'd love to see him win - not tomorrow though. I don't honestly think he can. 7th

13. I Want Revenge: He's supposed to be the favorite - but already he's not. More than likely that will change later but who knows. His connections make you not want to cheer for him - much like I wouldn't cheer for Big Brown last year. I just am turned off by the group - different trainer - same affect. So I don't want revenge - I want Justice. 12th

14. Atomic Rain: Considering that he was part of the beaten group (West Side Bernie and Just a Coincidence) behind I Want Revenge - and the fact that all 3 aren't really high quality - I think they drop I Want Revenge's level. This horse doesn't really belong. 17th

15. Dunkirk: hmmm, the unknown. He's a looker and should be with his $3.7 million price as a yearling. However I think since he's only had 3 starts that he may be up against it. Each race improves by leaps and bounds but I don't know - I'm not feeling it. Am I wrong? 6th

16. Pioneerof the Nile: he's the talk of the West Coast. I think he should be the real favorite and I think it's his race to lose. I was NOT impressed with him visually yesterday when I saw him. So I don't plan on using him in MY exotics. I just didn't like him in person. I was actually kind of shocked by his appearance. 9th

17. Summer Bird: another with only 3 races and he shouldn't be here at all. AT ALL. 15th

18. Nowhere to Hide: yet another that's basically to me "we want a horse in the Derby" type entry. Shouldn't be here. 19th

19. Desert Party: I think he's really the best option Godolphin has ever brought to the table. His one bad G1 dirt performance can't be trusted because he stumbled and was pinched back at the break. But it's hard to judge a horse like this. I'm including him - I think he could surprise all the naysayers. 5th

20. Flying Private: He runs about as good as me. If I was 3 I guess I could be in? 18th

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Kentucky Oaks Picks

I copied and pasted my picks into my blog and it didn't appreciate the Word formatting. So I had to skip it and wait until a) I was back from the drive thru at Keeneland and b) my migraine was gone. I hate migraines - though I'm sure I don't know anyone with love for them.

these are NOT in order of Preference - they are just in order of post.

Race 1
Uno Peso
Susies Gal
Satin Thunder

Race 2
My New Lady
Sweet Euphoria
Full Strut

no picks on Race 3 and 4

Race 5
Just Ben
Reynaldothewizard

Race 6
Chitoz
Smart Enough
Chamberlain Bridge

Race 7
Miss Isella
One Caroline

Race 8
Diamond Tags
Mein Fraulein

Race 9
Macho Again
Bullsbay
Shift in Power

Race 10
Stormalory
Skipadate
Turfiste
 
Race 11
Gabby's Golden Gal
Justwhistledixie
Rachel Alexandra

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Wanna Thank Your Mother for a Backside Like That

Today I got up at 4:00 a.m. which is beyond early for those of us that don't work on the track. I picked up my friend Beth at about 4:50 a.m. We drove to Churchill - excited like little kids on Christmas.

We rehashed Derbies past on the ride, drinking our Starbucks. I remembered my first Derby once I moved to Kentucky. Hanging out on the backside of Churchill with a group of people that I still consider friends (shout out to Janel, Madeleine and Matt). It was the year of Silver Charm. That was my first live in person Derby. (btw - I picked Pulpit).  

Our hopes today were to see Chocolate Candy, Friesan Fire and Mr. Hot Stuff. In addition if we were lucky enough for me to find and meet Chip Woolley - Mine That Bird's trainer from my hometown of Bloomfield, NM and see the two big fillies (especially West Point's Justwhistledixie) for the Oaks - it would be a bonus. 
 
We made our way through the barn area to the track and saw numerous people we've met/worked with throughout the years. All the horses galloping and posing on the track started giving you that feeling again like when you saw your first horse race. Remember that? Feeling of awe. We found us a place on one of stands after milling about. Then heard the magic words from a runner for some station "Chocolate Candy is on his way out on the track." He came out and is even more gorgeous in person and I don't mean that like a little girl with a pony. I mean it like a man (I just called myself a man - that freaks me out every time because I always feel like I'm a boy - shut up) who has now seen tons of quality horse flesh and until recently - had become jaded by it all. I was overjoyed to see Chocolate Candy.

It wasn't long after that we saw Mr. Hot Stuff (and now that I've been told the story behind his name - something to do with a family inside joke for WinStar and a suit and so on - he's hot!). He looked good. I mean like hottie on the beach good. (that can apply to either sex for those of you who just winced a little - and stop it).

After that viewing spectacular we found the stakes barn - met up with some West Point peeps and saw their awesome filly for the Oaks. Then out of the mist (ok - not mist - just in the shedrow but c'mon) we saw Mine That Bird. Now you're probably not as excited as me but we're talking a NM boy and a horse now from NM with a trainer that lives across from  my sister. I mean - that's vicariousness at it's most righteous.
I found Chip Woolley - and introduced myself. We talked for a while and wished him good luck. Really nice guy.
 
We also so Rachel Alexandra and let's just say she's full of herself. After the break we caught Friesan Fire and met Larry Jones pony. Pioneerof the Nile came out on the track as well. Our morning was so full.

Think back to a month ago as I was hoping that Keeneland's Spring Meet would inspire me to love it all again - and it worked. Who knew that a trip to Churchill's backside would take that up a notch? I was ready to chuck it all, sell the business, and go full force into only showing our dogs. I am more than happy to report that I am so back to loving horse racing.

If only because of the horse.

For fun - I'll give you my picks for the stakes on both the Oaks and Derby cards sometime Friday.
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Why Did You Use THAT Name?

So we are 5 days from Christmas for Horse Racing fans. I had to go on a two mile walk with my Bouvier - Dreamer (yes his call name is for the movie of the same name) today just to get away fromy laptop and TVG. I love both - but I'll spend 24 hours searching - looking - exciting over it all. Of course - it doesn't help that I cannot get away from my mind. Plus Dreamer kept getting stronger the further we went. So I was feeling like it was a race. Bam - my mind is back to the first leg of the Triple Crown.

(while I type this I've got a rerun of Two and Half Men on and Charlie just took Jake to the track. Luckily it wasn't a lengthy experience - I hate when TV shows do horse racing).

I'm looking at the past performances for the probable contenders for Saturday's race and I got to thinking about the names of the horses. If you want to win the Derby - why would you name your horse a name that sounds better on a horse in the 1st at Beulah? That's not me knocking Beulah or claimers. That's me knocking people with suck ass name choices. 

I am very particular what my Derby winner is named. I can't have tacky or just plain un-original names. Below is a list of names currently attached to probably entrants - and why I do or don't like the name. Please - DO NOT take offense if you are associated with any horse. Not trying to hurt any feelings - so don't be so sensitive.

Advice: Good name - his dam's name is Word o' Wisdom. I like the name. 

Chocolate Candy: probably better on a filly but his sire is Candy Ride (Arg) and he's owned by diet queen Jenny Craig - so I like the humor. Even if it's not intended

Desert Party: Nice - stands on it's own. Original

Dunkirk: I'm sure it's got a meaning - I'm not looking it up. It's ok with me. However anything with Kirk in it reminds me of Captain Kirk and I hated Star Trek.

Flying Private: reminds me of about 300 already used names. 

Friesan Fire: I love Friesian's but notice the difference in spelling. I went to freetranslation.com and from Spanish to English - it means "they mill" - yeah I don't get it. 

General Quarters: It stands all on it's own and it's kind of a neat name. 

Hold Me Back: mother is Restraint - not the best name for a horse you want to win.

I Want Revenge: Sire is Stephen Got Even. Original - not very Derby like.

Mine That Bird: Sire is Birdstone, dam is Mining My Own. Oh why not go with Own That Stone. Bad name. Canary would have been better.

Mr. Hot Stuff: Worst name - hate it a ton.

Musket Man: It stands on it's own. - It's also very gelding in a claiming race IMHO.

Papa Clem: Named for the owner's Grandfather. I don't mind it at all.

Pioneerof the Nile: Don't mind a run on name but not the way this was done. Not a fan of the name.

Regal Ransom: It's good enough.

Square Eddie: Probably named for someone - don't like it otherwise.

Summer Bird: Another Birdstone - another lack of originality

West Side Bernie: by Bernstein - Reminds me of West Side Story for some reason (not a fan really) and so he should be a gelding. 

Win Willy: Really? I mean Monarchos out of City Fair and you get Win Willy. 

Who wins?     


 

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My Worlds Collide

Wow - let me just start by telling you that I have Derby Fever, finally.

I have been very excited about Chocolate Candy because a) I think he's way on the improve and b) his 3rd dam is ALSO the dam of the great and powerful Affirmed (you know he's my favorite). I keep trying to really get myself inspired - to the point Desmond and I were almost buying tickets to go to the Derby. Then I thought I'd throw my party that I was going to do annually starting last year. Then I decided I'd not do either and just go through the Keeneland drive thru with my friend Beth like we do every year we aren't in Louisville. After that we'll part ways - maybe after a Culver's burger and enjoy races comfortably from our couches at our respective homes.

So I have been paying some attention to the quality of say the top 10 runners for the Derby but haven't really put my thoughts down on paper (or fake internet pretend wannabe save the rain forest type paper). I was sitting here last night in bed - cat buggin because she thinks it's her time - and I was looking at Twitter, Facebook, Kentuckyderby.com, Thoroughbred Times Triple Crown page, etc. I was trying to figure out some things and was kind of just going through the motions.

Usually - I'm all about a horse for the Derby after they've run the Breeders' Cup Juvenile - and other than
Stardom Bound - I was not in love with anyone on that day for this year's Triple Crown. I mean I picked Alysheba for pete's sake (who's Pete btw?) on BC Day. Yeah - I realize that was long ago - but it's usually that race that has me revved up. Hard to get revved up over a synthetic race for a 1 1/4 mile dirt race. Messes me up.

I'm wandering.

Back to last night. So I kind of stopped bothering as I got an instant message from my sister (it's a huge deal to have either of them on Facebook btw). We bs'd for a bit and I mentioned the Derby and she said that her neighbor Chip was going but she couldn't remember the horse or owner. I chuckled to myself and said - so he's going as someone's guest or just for fun or something? She said "he's going as a trainer." WTF? I thought to myself (sorry Crystal) she doesn't have a clue. I said "no he isn't, he doesn't have a horse in the Derby." I even snarled my hateful lips at it all.

I kept thinking - if it weren't late I'd pick up the phone and put an end to all this nonsense. She said something about unless she misunderstood yes he has a horse in the Derby. I thought - maybe under card because NM races have picked up heavily in quality and who knows. But not Derby. Not MY Kentucky Derby. So I asked her what his full name was - I'll Google the man and tell her she's wrong. I'm so damn smart - I'm the horse racing guy in the family.

She said Chip Woolley. I said Hmmm. Googled his name and Kentucky Derby and found out that my sister, a hairdresser in the heart of oil and gas country in my hometown of Bloomfield, NM (population 6,420 - last census) was ahead of me on a Derby horse. My sister - who used to make me chase her while on a bike (me and my little sister Vickie on foot) while playing a game called Little Liza Jane (DO NOT ASK) and we could never catch her because she's 6 years older. Mean! My sister, who used to tell us she was magic and would disappear at night to go to a place called Copacabana where she would meat Queen Athena (uh huh) and her assistant Toshiba (stay with me now) and if only I could remember the male assistants name - probably Quasar or something.

She even drew pictures of these places and we believed her - little kids, we were little kids. She wasn't mean to us - she just enjoyed lying to us. Nice. She was good too - because we couldn't find her EVER. And had Bob Barker not given away a Toshiba product on The Price is Right - she may have fooled us for years to come.

This same girl - who didn't move to the heart of the horse to follow a dream of being near the Kentucky Derby - lives across the f'n street from a trainer of probable Kentucky Derby starter - Mine That Bird. I'll tell you the names of all the horse trainers that know me by name - after growing up in the business, Michelle Nihei, Kenny McPeek and Pat Swan. If there are others that know who I am by sight - I didn't know they did. Now - before you think I'm bitter about this - I'm not. I just am bitter about that Queen Athena Copacabana crap - Barry Manilow was magic too and he wrote the song about this place she went to every night. I mean really. Gullible little kids. I'm surprised we ever made it out of the house.

Back to my world's colliding. I mentioned to my friend Liane about the story (sans all the childhood trauma) and she said - Amy knows him from her Quarter Horse Association days. Get this - I've known Amy Owens for about 8 years now. Met her at Thoroughbred Times when we were both there. One day we're talking and turns out she knows Pat and Tomey Swan very well. They are good friends that trained/rode my first/only QH winner back in NM. All the way in Lexington, KY I meet someone who puts me back in touch via email with Tomey.

Then it turns out that Amy worked with my 2nd cousin A.J. Mangum while at the AQHA - he's like 6 days younger than me - and we lost touch years ago. Hadn't spoken to him probably since the year I moved to KY and he made a visit for work. All the way in Lexington, KY I meet someone who puts me back in touch with A.J. via email - and he's family.

Since I've moved here I've met people that knew someone I sort of knew somehow in the industry - NM to KY. I even met a guy (I'll keep his name out) that told me "I knew your Dad - I rode for him in Texas." I just said "right" and walked away - my Dad would have never lived in Texas and wasn't a trainer. I did meet some people that knew my Dad while at a party with my partner however just after my Dad passed away. It was several years ago - but this older couple knew him from long long ago in New Mexico - so frickin' random. They were genuine not like the drunk former jockey that I won't mention.

The horse industry completely amazes me - because it's so vast and so different from state to state - and I'm talking racing, showing, breeding, rodeo, etc. - but we all are connected somehow - not just by the horse but because of the horse.

Take from this 2 things: 1) be careful what you say/do because someone knows someone that knows you and it will affect you someday and 2) don't lie to your siblings when they are little - (or ever), they can be very impressionable and one day they will tell all!

Love you Vickie and Crystal. Good Luck Crystal's neighbor on Derby day!

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